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May 2025
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Releasing the need to be perfect

SEBASTIAAN VAN DER SCHRIER
About this episode

Carol Look has a distinguished background in traditional psychotherapy, was trained as a Clinical Social Worker and earned her Doctoral Degree in Clinical Hypnotherapy. 

This was before she became one of the only 29 EFT Masters in the world.

Carol is known for combining her background in traditional psychotherapy with “energy medicine” and she appears as a practitioner and energy therapy expert in the DVD documentary “The Tapping Solution” as well as in the documentary focusing on helping veterans suffering from PTSD, “Operation: Emotional Freedom.” 

She has extensive experience helping people overcome perfectionism and shares how to overcome social perfectionism once and for all. 

QUOTE: ""This technique hands down has been the best thing for anxiety and has not let me down for 18 years."

Carol's show notes page

My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

Contact me directly: 
www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

Warm regards,
Sebastiaan van der Schrier

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

You’re not alone.
I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time.
But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

Here are your first steps:
1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

3.) Let’s connect!
• SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
• FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
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• Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

Warm regards,
Seb

 

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