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Sep 2022
30m 42s

#66: Giving Too Much: Are Your Efforts B...

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

You're a giver. You give 110%. You give so much of your heart to others. You care deeply. But you're also deeply resentful.  If giving too much is causing you to feel unappreciated, used, or secretly angry, we're gonna help you unpack ALL of this in today's episode! Today, I share with you three powerful journaling questions to identify the inner child roots of your over-giving behaviors and how to re-establish balance in your relationship so that you're not the only person who initiates and gives.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

  1. How to know the "signs" that you are giving too much
  2. Three powerful journaling questions to pinpoint the childhood roots of where this over-giving behaviour is coming from
  3. Practical tips on how to assess balance in your relationships, to see if your efforts are being matched and reciprocated by your partner


Hey bestie! My mission is to help High-Achievers and people-pleasers heal their Inner Child and find healthy love, especially those who desire an extraordinary connection but often struggle in their relationships. 

Got An "Aha!" Moment? Take a screenshot this episode, share it with the world, tag me @bygloriazhang on Instagram, and let me know your thoughts!

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MENTIONED IN PODCAST:

  1. Listen to Episode #4: How to Stop People Pleasing (and WHY we do it)
  2. Listen to Episode #46: How to Set Boundaries with Michelle Elman
  3. How To Heal & Attract Secure Relationships:  Register for my popular free workshop where I reveal my proven 3-step process of how to create thriving relationships by healing your inner child.

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FREE RESOURCES:

  1. How To Heal & Attract Secure Relationships:  Register for my popular free workshop where I reveal my proven 3-step process of how to create thriving relationships by healing your inner child.
  2. Download Gloria's FREE Guide to Inner Child Healing.
  3. Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!

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