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Sep 2022
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#205: How To Find The Love Of Your Life ...

SPENCER LODGE
About this episode

Dating is hard, and it's only getting harder. Apps like Tinder and Bumble have made meeting potential partners easier than ever before, but still, so many people are struggling to find true love. Mat Boggs, one of the world’s top dating experts, joins me this week on the show to talk about all things love and why dating is getting increasingly difficult. In this episode, the best-selling author shares his secrets for finding love and reveals some of the tactics that his clients use to find real, committed love amidst the “disposable dating” culture. Whether you’re a woman or a man – if you’re single, and hoping to change that, then this episode is an absolute must.

 

Discussion points

02:35 Mat introduces himself

07:49 3 Things happy couples do

16:10 The importance of value

18:41 Challenges women face in dating

27:45 Mistakes people make on first dates

34:20 Dating tips for older people

48:38 More about Mat’s work

 

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