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Sep 2022
26m 19s

Episode 124: How To Have Great Outercour...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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The terms “sex” and “intercourse” are often used interchangeably, but the truth is that sex doesn’t have to include intercourse at all! In fact, outercourse often makes for even more satisfying sex. “Outercourse” is the general term for any sexual activities that aren’t focused on vaginal or anal penetration. By practicing more outercourse, we st ... Show More
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