So many of us follow a sex script that’s been handed to us. But is that script actually serving you? In this popular Best Of episode, I give you permission to let your favorite sexual behaviors lead the way, with tons of spicy ideas to play with. Sex isn’t just about P-in-V (penis in vagina) penetration. Yet, that’s what we often mean by “having sex.” Listen ... Show More
Oct 9
Why You’re Making Oral Sex Harder Than It Needs to Be
Let's talk about 69… because whether you love it, hate it, or have been too intimidated to try it, chances are nobody ever actually taught you how to do it well. In this episode I'm breaking down everything you need to know about giving and receiving oral sex simultaneously, incl ... Show More
30m 51s
Oct 6
The Oral Sex Skill Nobody Teaches
Great oral sex isn’t about mastering a technique, memorizing tutorials, or finding one magic trick. It’s about being present enough to listen to your partner’s body. In this episode, I’m sharing how to build a sexual language with your partner through attention, communication, an ... Show More
18m 12s
May 2022
Episode 93: Tips For Having The Best Sex Ever
<p>When it comes to sex, we could all benefit from a few pointers because great sex is usually something we have to figure out on our own. On previous episodes of the show, we’ve talked about things like expanding your definition of sex, learning how to communicate what you ... Show More
38m 16s
Jan 2023
Come Talk About Sex With Me
Today I’m getting through some great voicemails and emails from my listeners. We are covering some of my favorite topics; blowjobs, where to find sexy people to explore with, reclamation sex, exploring threesomes, best dating apps for casual hookups, premature ejaculation and ton ... Show More
59m 42s
Aug 2024
Candid Conversations: Sex Toys, Sexual Exploration, and Intimacy Insights
Hello, gorgeous! 😘 Ready to spice things up? In this episode, Kathy and I are dishing on our favorite sex toys and sharing all the juicy details. We talk about the Clit Kisser, Womanizer, Lush, and even delve into the pleasures of butt plugs and G-spot orgasms. I share my journe ... Show More
1 h
Jun 2025
Voicemails, Vaginas & Vibrators-Oh My!
Oof! This episode had me laughing, gasping, and seriously needing a cold shower 😅. I dive into listener voicemails full of sexual tension, honest vulnerability, and pure kink-tastic fun. You’ll hear me give some tough love on bad lovers, celebrate one couple’s epic sexual advent ... Show More
42m 5s