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Aug 2022
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(Matt Monday): Feel Them Pulling Away? A...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .

A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, they’re seeing each other all the time. He’s texting her daily, making plans with her for the future, and every time his name pops up on her phone, she feels a surge of happiness and excitement.

That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, she feels a shift. He grows more and more distant, and at first she’s not sure whether she’s imagining it or whether he really is pulling away. She doubles down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive him further away until eventually he calls it a day and stops messaging altogether.

If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you.

But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes.

In today’s episode, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it.

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