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Aug 2022
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The 8 Steps To REALLY Be A High-Value Wo...

Impact Theory
About this episode

Has being a people-pleaser become part of your identity? Are you the person everyone knows they can rely on when they need something? Feeling like you're stuck in a rut and lacking the confidence you need to go after what you want isn’t serving you. In fact it’s leaving you feeling more like a low-value add in every relationship and situation you find yourself in.

News flash homie! We are all high value!

Lisa’s about to break down 8 traits of a high value woman and give you the boost and motivation you need to tap into your high value super power. Join Lisa and these amazing women to see how you can increase your value today!

Sara Jakes Roberts is a woman of faith and the bestselling author of Woman Evolve. Her episode is absolute fire and will leave speechless in tears. Check out her full episode here: https://youtu.be/IbriO6QIxoU

Elle Russ is a bestselling author, master coach and badass when it comes to women’s confidence You can catch her full episode on confidence and find out her superpower here: https://youtu.be/c5J8vR0fwzc

Chalene Johnson is not only an entrepreneur, fitness coach and business coach she’s a fighter that proved herself to be a high value woman against the odds. You can checkout her inspiring full conversation with Lisa here: https://youtu.be/yn0GgM4wguI

Faith Jenkins is an attorney, Divorce Court TV Judge, entrepreneur and bestselling author of the book, Sis Don’t Settle. In her episode with Lisa she really unpacked what it meant for her to be single as her option and something with her power, watch the full conversation here: https://youtu.be/zgmQHz0OqCE


SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction to High Value Woman

0:24 | A High Value Woman Doesn’t Need A Man

5:59 | A High Value Woman Has Self-Esteem

15:33 | A High Value Woman Has a Growth Mindset

17:34 | A High Value Woman Has a Self-Care Routine

25:47 | A High Value Woman Has Standards

31:40 | A High Value Woman Has Ambitious Goals

34:36 | A High Value Woman Celebrates Her Achievements

37:08 | A High Value Woman Listens to Her Intuition


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