Are all the ”good ones” taken?

I’ve missed being here. The last month has taken me somewhere I wasn’t quite expecting, and I wanted to check in and tell you a little about where I’ve been.This week is a little life update on what I’ve been building, why I’m giving myself a little more time before coming back w ... Show More

On July 13th, I lost one of my dear friends. Josh Kalven was diagnosed with a rare, aggressive cancer in March and died four months later. He was a husband, a dad to a five-year-old, and a sweet friend.This episode is a eulogy. I read Josh the letter I wrote him in June, back whe ... Show More

The manosphere thinks going down on a woman is gay, submissive, or a low-return waste of time. It's wrong on all three — so I brought in an expert to help me prove it.In this crossover episode — Shameless Love — I sit down with sex educator Amy Baldwin from the Shameless Sex podc ... Show More

Finding Good Friends can be hard, but it’s not impossible! One good friend is better than 50 people who aren’t up to no good. This is a short talk teaching you what to look for when finding good friends! 

take yourself seriously, but having ridiculous standards that are a mirror of what society deems attractive won't get you love.sending you all lots of love and peaaaaaaaace!https://linktr.ee/thezurkieshow 

Sometimes the people we want in our lives, aren’t people we need in our lives. Which can be a hard pill to swallow. So ask yourself, are they really good for you? 

All healthy guys are nice but not all nice guys are healthy (as my bf so lovingly put it). A break from the cautionary content, but with a dash of what a green flag looks and feels like in real time, sprinkled in with some personal anecdotes and male perspectives. To help those w ... Show More

There are over 7 billion people on earth so while your odds of finding a compatible partner are great, your odds of finding the one (in 7 billion) that you are meant to be with seem a bit less great to say the least. So does “the one” exist? If so, how we do find them? Tune in fo ... Show More

We’ve all heard the saying: if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. But isn’t that a terrible way to look at life? Because if you go into everything with negativity, you might miss the best thing that could ever happen.But, dear listener, the saying is a saying for a rea ... Show More

<p>There are certain types of romantic partners who present themselves as having amazing qualities: deep, thoughtful, self-aware, spiritually evolved…&nbsp;But, can these qualities be just another form of seduction that hides ego and selfishness? What if someone is good at appear ... Show More

<p>Is it too picky to want to date who shares similar qualities to you? And when should you be more open-minded about who you choose a relationship with?</p><br><p>Join Matt and Stephen to talk about pickiness, standards, and mindsets that can make finding love harder.</p><br><p> ... Show More