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Jul 2022
21m 37s

Fake Orgasms

Coffee and Cleavage
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Shantal and Lynnie chat about the reality of fake orgasms and the pleasure gap. The two discuss why fake o's are harmful to both women and men as well as what needs to be done to finally close the gap. Time to listen, learn and maximize pleasure. 

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