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Jul 2022

1h 2m

192: Introversion, Self Acceptance and H...

About this episode

What happens when we step out of fear and into authenticity? Lana Blakely leans into the discomfort of vulnerability, braving the fear of rejection, to create real art, and touch people’s hearts. As she puts it, “what’s the worst that can happen?” By being ourselves, we can inspire others to do the same.

Swedish YouTuber, Lana Blakely shares her journey with introversion, self-acceptance, and confidence. She believes in leading with emotions, listening to the present moment, and letting identities be fluid.

TIMESTAMPS:

04:42 - Making content for your “younger self”
07:01 - Vulnerability & boundaries
10:58 - Creative process: planning & spontaneity
18:06 - Intro to Attachment Theory
22:18 - Introversion & self-acceptance
32:50 - Opening up & sharing on the internet
52:58 - The complex relationship with inspiration
55:24 - The future of content creation & shortening attention spans

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MENTIONED:

“Attached” - Amir Levine: book on attachment style
“The Inner Sky” - Steven Forrest: beginner’s book to astrology

The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 192

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