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Jul 2022
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192: Introversion, Self Acceptance and H...

Aileen Xu
About this episode
What happens when we step out of fear and into authenticity? Lana Blakely leans into the discomfort of vulnerability, braving the fear of rejection, to create real art, and touch people’s hearts. As she puts it, “what’s the worst that can happen?” By being ourselves, we can inspire others to do the same.

Swedish YouTuber, Lana Blakely shares her journey with introversion, self-acceptance, and confidence. She believes in leading with emotions, listening to the present moment, and letting identities be fluid.

TIMESTAMPS:

  • 04:42 - Making content for your “younger self”
  • 07:01 - Vulnerability & boundaries
  • 10:58 - Creative process: planning & spontaneity
  • 18:06 - Intro to Attachment Theory
  • 22:18 - Introversion & self-acceptance
  • 32:50 - Opening up & sharing on the internet
  • 52:58 - The complex relationship with inspiration
  • 55:24 - The future of content creation & shortening attention spans

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MENTIONED:

  • Attached” - Amir Levine: book on attachment style
  • The Inner Sky” - Steven Forrest: beginner’s book to astrology
The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 192

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