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Jul 2022
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Esther Perel: Use This Simple Trick to H...

Lewis Howes
About this episode

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful voices on modern relationships. Fluent in nine languages, she helms a therapy practice in New York City and serves as an organizational consultant for Fortune 500 companies around the world. Her celebrated TED Talks have garnered more than 40 million views and her bestselling books, Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs, are global phenomena translated into nearly 30 languages. Esther is also an executive producer and host of the popular podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How’s Work?

Her latest project is Where Should We Begin - A Game of Stories.

In this episode, you will learn:

  • How sexuality is only a piece of eroticism.
  • Why humor is so important to heal your relationship.
  • The difference of being aware and feeling your dread.
  • Why play is one of the keys to success.


For more, go to lewishowes.com/1291

For Esther's previous episodes:

The Secret to Desire in a Long Term Relationship: https://link.chtbl.com/1236-pod

Red Flags To Avoid In Relationships & How To Find Real Love: https://link.chtbl.com/1277-pod

The Power of Erotic Intelligence: https://link.chtbl.com/732-pod

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