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Jul 2022
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ASK P: Nice Guy Paradox, Spicing Up an L...

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#49. How do I sustain a long distance relationship over the course of 3 years? How do I get myself excited for a move to a big city? He’s a really nice guy, but I’m not attracted to him… is that superficial? Payton answers these questions in today’s episode of ASK P, a monthly advice column series. 

 

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