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Mar 2022

35m 51s

Episode 28: How To (Actually) Be There F...

The Holistic Psychologist

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We all want to be there for the people we care about. Sometimes we don’t know how to actually do this. Or we feel uncomfortable even trying. In this episode, we share ways to support the people you love in the way that feels best for them. Get ready to have deeper relationships that feel more connected, and be sure to share this with the people closest to you in your life.

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