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Nov 2019
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30 - God, Love and Attachments

Anthony De Mello/The DeMello Spirituality Center
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God is love, so what is love? Love is sensitivity, love is consciousness.   A loving heart is sensitive to the whole of life, to all persons; a loving heart doesn’t harden itself to any person or thing. Love entails clarity of perception, objectivity; there is nothing so clear-sighted as love. But the moment you become attached, then you’re blocking out so m ... Show More
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