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Mar 2021
34m 17s

No Shame, No Blame

Dear Media, Caroline Stanbury
About this episode

This week Caroline is back solo to talk about all things blame and shame.. there should be neither!

Separation and Divorce happen.. We sometimes have to make the difficult decision to move forwards and we cannot worry about those friends we’ve lost in the split or hold back due to someone’s opinion. Family and Ex’s family members opinions matter, but not enough to stay in a relationship and sacrifice your happiness.. you need to learn to be at peace with your decision. For every friend you’ve lost through the separation there will be many many more new ones to com. As for the blame, well people will always have an opinion… but you’ve got to do what feels right & go with your Gut. 

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