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Jun 2022
27m 57s

Mom & Dad: Carpooling With the Enemy

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On this episode: Jamilah, Zak, and Elizabeth tackle a question from a listener who is caught in a carpool conundrum. Splitting the 30 minute drive to school has been a significant help. However, the kid they carpool with is downright rude to our listener’s daughter. What should she do?

On Slate Plus, the best way to entertain your kids during road trips. Slate Plus members get a bonus segment on MADAF each week, and no ads. Sign up now at slate.com/momanddadplus to listen and support our work.

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Podcast produced by Kristie Taiwo-Makanjuola, Rosemary Belson, and Jasmine Ellis.

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