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Jul 2023
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My Son Wears Skirts. My Mom Doesn’t Like...

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On this episode: Elizabeth, Zak and Jamilah help a listener decide how to support her skirt-loving eight-year-old-son — and how to get his hesitant grandmother to come around.


We also go over some ‘triumphs and fails’ from the past week — and then, if you’re sticking around for Slate Plus, we explore the history of the comic strip Goofus and Gallant… and what 80 years can tell us about the evolution of parenthood.


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Podcast produced by Rosemary Belson and Maura Currie.

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