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Do this today before filing for a divorce. Has divorce ever crossed your mind or you’ve already broken the news to your spouse? If the answer is yes to any of these questions, watch this video first.

Research shows that couples wait an average of 6 years before seeking help for their marriage. Think of that timing in terms of your relationship. How many conversations did you avoid? How many times did you scream without hearing what the other was saying? Is there a time you could have sat down with your spouse to work through your issues calmly? 

We often wait until it’s too late to start seeking help, but the truth is divorce hurts. It hurts you, your spouse, and your children, turning your world upside down. When we feel hurt or misunderstood, we take those emotions and run with them, never really breaking down the reasons or results of our actions. Today, we will help you think about your marriage issues from a different perspective. Do this today before filing for a divorce. 

In this video, we discuss: 

-The four questions to ask yourself before filing for divorce 

-Common scenarios that lead to divorce

-Seeing yourself from your spouse’s viewpoint

-Processing your emotions

-Valuable tools to help save your marriage starting today 

We all play a part in the success or downfalls of a marriage. Admitting your faults is hard, but self-reflection is powerful and the start of positive change. Remember, reconciliation is not a quick remedy to mend your marriage. It took a while to get here, and it will take time to get back to a better place. With our successful marriage-help programs, we believe if anything works, this will.

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As long as you're committed to change, we have the tools to help. 

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