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If you were involved in an affair and it suddenly ended, we know you are feeling a whirlwind of emotions. It feels like you're being torn apart and thinking, "that's it. No one will ever love me like that again." It hurts when the people we love leave us, especially when it comes out of nowhere. 

It's even more painful if you've given up the most critical parts of your life to be with this person. Your marriage, your family, or your friends, all because you never felt a love that strongly before. You believed you would spend the rest of your life with this person, and the love would stay alive forever because no one understood you the way they did. No one made you feel as whole as they did. 

There are no magic words to say to win back their affections, but there are ways to heal when an affair ends abruptly. We believe in the power of forgiveness, getting your life back, and healing your old relationships from the emotional damage caused. Your world is crashing around you, but you can build it back up again and start over with the people you love the most. We reveal everything in this video if you feel the motions of an ended affair.

In this episode, we cover:

-The grieving period of an ended affair 

-The life cycles of an affair 

-The 10,10,10 rule

-Limerence: The feeling of being in love 

-How to move forward after an affair

-Getting your life together if you feel broken

-Resources to help you save your marriage 

At Marriage Helper, we exercise compassion and understanding to all couples and individuals we meet. We know no one is perfect, and people make mistakes. The best thing you can do is learn to become better for yourself and the people who care. What 

We have a supportive community of people going through similar grievances to listen. Place a free strategy call with one of our representatives if you need support and direction through these difficult times. 

As long as you're committed to change, we have the tools to help. 

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