#242: How The Integration Process Works

Want to unlock deep, lasting sexual attraction with a woman? Most men rely on surface-level tactics, nice dates, flashy looks, or clever lines, but those only get you so far. If you want her to feel that primal pull toward you, you need to speak to her nervous system. In this vid ... Show More

Have you ever wondered what truly defines a healthy masculine man? In this episode you will explore the 10 essential traits that reveal a man of integrity and purpose. You will learn how qualities like self-control, strong leadership, clear communication, and emotional intelligen ... Show More

Most women do not realize the power they hold in shaping a man's success. The right woman does not push, control, or demand. She inspires, supports, and brings out his highest potential. In this episode, I am revealing the secret behind how a woman’s feminine energy, trust, and b ... Show More

Ellie shares her experiences growing up with an abusive and narcissistic father. She details his leadership role in church and how he moved her family to Peru for a mission and subsequently got kicked out for poor behavior towards his cohort. Ellie discusses how his mental and em ... Show More

Buckle up and meet Nick. He feels he's becoming a narcissist, filled with justified rage toward his parents, totally stuck in life and in danger of destroying his marriage. Sven has to work hard to pull out Nick's honest feelings and get him on the right path. When your ... Show More

For Father’s Day, the Modern Love team asked for your stories about fatherhood and emotional vulnerability. We heard from listeners who told us that their dads rarely expressed their emotions, from listeners whose fathers wore their hearts on their sleeves and from fathers themse ... Show More

Send us a textIn today's solo episode, I share a little more of my personal story with the hopes of helping you feel validated, less alone or even empowered. Father's Day (or even Mother's Day) can be difficult when you have a parent that is alive yet you have no idea where they ... Show More

People with CPTSD often end up with a harsh "edge" to their personalities, especially when they feel vulnerable. It's no surprise that after a childhood of emotional neglect and deprivation, without protection from bullies or abusers, some of us would have "fighting energy," even ... Show More

The character arc from daddy issues to hyper independent “I don’t need you, I’ve got everything under control myself” and even “omg, have I become my father or am I dating someone like my father!?” is more common than you might think. Today, join Louise as she dives into a hotlin ... Show More

If your parents made it a problem that you needed their love and attention, you may have have internalized the belief that there's something wrong and dirty and shameful about you and your feelings. In families where the expectation of loyalty and honesty only created horrible ar ... Show More

Today, I wanted to share some daily affirmations - taken straight from Scripture - for the woman who has father wounds. Your life matters and has meaning. Even if your biological father has not communicated his love to you, your heavenly Father has documented his unchanging thoug ... Show More