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Apr 2020
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Interview with Jay Skeeters: What is it ...

Rose Skeeters
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In this episode, I interview my husband and best friend, Jay. He answers questions about BPD like what is it like to date someone with BPD and what advice would he give to family and friends of people with BPD. Listen in to hear about BPD from a partner’s perspective. 
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