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Mar 2021
36m 39s

’Bored of being scared’ - Nudes, Leaks a...

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This week, Jacob looks at the world of nudes and leaks - from dick pics to Revenge Porn to up-skirting.

He finds out how common it is, how devastating Revenge Porn can be, and what the laws are around non-consensual image sharing.

Guests include Academic Lawyer Abhilash Nair, Sophie Mortimer from the Revenge Porn Helpline, Folami Prehaye who set up VOIC (Victims of Image Crime) after successfully prosecuting her ex-partner, Ronnie Meechan-Rogers from the University of Birmingham who is researching Revenge Porn in the LGBTQ community, and Gina Martin, who led the campaign to change the law around up-skirting.

Producer - Nick Coupe Executive Producer - Pete Strauss Researcher - Miranda Slade Sound Design - Chris Maclean Music - Buddy Peace Artwork - Made Up

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