The J’s start the show with a conversation about whether or not moving to a new city will improve your dating life. A listener writes in to ask if she should just pick up and move to a new city to improve her odds of finding someone. Is the city ever really the cause of your dating woes? This week’s Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a mid-sex pause to return ... Show More
Yesterday
My BF Asked His Ex-Wife for Her Engagement Ring Back, What an ICK
Jared and Jordana are learning about Instagram’s new blur feature for “soft launching” couples in their new segment, Are U Up to Date? They then answer a listener’s email about asking for an engagement ring back after years of marriage and whether it’s petty or prudent. Lastly, t ... Show More
51m 53s
Oct 7
I Thought We Were in Love, But Then He Listed 20 Reasons to Break Up!
Jordana and Jared are reading through a listener’s breakup texts, and the list of reasons to end it is long! A cozy cabin weekend in the woods was not as romantic as she thought, with complaints about restaurant choices, what time to go to the farmers market, and feeling judged f ... Show More
1h 25m
May 2022
Moving Cities and Making Friends
We're talking about a life change that can be exciting/scary/transformational/anxiety-inducing/all of the above: Moving to a new city! We're sharing our experiences, then discussing all the aspects of starting over in a new place -- choosing where to live, making friends, dating, ... Show More
1h 16m
Jul 2025
Confidence, Chemistry & Bedroom Curveballs | Fan Q&A Pt. 2
In this week’s episode, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary answer even more fan-submitted questions—from what makes a hookup truly unforgettable to how many “okay” dates is too many before moving on. They are talking sex confidence vs. physical skill, the surprising impact of rejection, a ... Show More
17m 12s