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Apr 2022
25m 30s

The Other

ABEER
About this episode

Do you know what is the ultimate separation tool? Comparison... 

Not only does it separate us from other people, it separates us from ourselves...

Mix that with the layers of unworthiness and you have a dangerous combination...

One that gives birth to Envy!

Envy is rampant in the world today, with people stuck in resentment without believing they can actually do anything about it!

Listen in as we dissect this sin, and also share the antidote that will elevate us and the world... 

I was quite "Inspired" making this episode, I hope you feel the same.

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