In this solo episode Mary talks about how to stop caring about OPO (other people’s opinions), OPE (other people’s expectations) and OPA (other people’s agendas). You will learn how to truly live for yourself, not other people, and what it means when you’re feeling “stuck” in life. She also shares some tips that will help you learn what your core values are, ... Show More
Feb 26
How to Feel Confident When You Speak with My Voice Coach Ryan O’Shea
Your voice changes when you feel insecure. It gets tighter, faster, or smaller, and suddenly you don’t feel confident anymore. In this conversation, we explore how to build real confidence by regulating your nervous system and learning to speak from a grounded, embodied confident ... Show More
45m 24s
Feb 12
28 Things I Wish I Knew at 18 (About Boys, Confidence, Dating, and Self Worth)
With special guest: my Sister!!! For my 28th birthday, I sat down with my 18-year-old sister to share 28 truths about confidence, dating, boys, people, and being a woman with self-worth.This conversation moves from chaotic sister humor to the deeper realities of building confiden ... Show More
40m 55s
Jan 2025
How to Stop Caring What People Think of You
<p>Today, you’re going to learn the simple trick to stop caring what other people think.</p><p>If you find that you take things personally, worry what other people think about you, are scared of being judged, or find that you can’t stop overthinking, you’ll love this episode.</p> ... Show More
51m 19s
Sep 2021
Learning To Love Yourself
Valuing and caring for our own needs, wants, and desires is critical to our mental health and happiness. If we struggle to love ourselves and take care of ourselves, how do we deliver value to the rest of the world? In this episode, I discuss four actionable ways to love yourself ... Show More
18m 43s
Sep 2025
How to Be a High Value Woman (Without Playing Games)
In this episode, I dive into what it really means to be a high-value woman—and why detachment is the secret ingredient to lasting confidence and healthy relationships. Being “high value” isn’t about looks, status, or playing games—it’s a mindset rooted in self-worth. I break down ... Show More
35m 51s
Sep 2024
Things You NEED To Know About Self Love
<p>In this episode, I dive deep into the real meaning of self-love – and spoiler alert, it's not about just treating yourself to wine or ice cream. Self-love is about showing up for yourself, even when it's tough. It’s about discipline, growth, and doing the hard things that make ... Show More
16m 38s
Mar 2025
How to Gain Self-Respect & Earn Respect from Others: The Key to Confidence & Boundaries
Do you struggle with self-respect and setting boundaries? Do you feel like people don’t respect you the way you deserve? In this episode of *You First: A Journey to Self*, we’re diving deep into the power of self-respect, how it influences the way others treat you, and the key ha ... Show More
11m 27s
Jul 2024
World Leading Psychologist: How to Master Your Emotions & Deal With Negative People
<p>Today, you’re getting a masterclass in how to manage your emotions and deal with people who cannot tolerate their own. </p><p>Whether you find yourself constantly annoyed, frustrated, or angry…</p><p>Or if you’re sick of dealing with people who can’t handle their own emotions… ... Show More
1h 8m
Nov 2024
#625: How To Really Love Yourself And Your Life
Do you want to be able to really love yourself, and your life, like, not just when things are going well for you or when you're getting external validation from others? This episode is for you. Look, I've been there … I put my worth and value, and my ability to love myself into t ... Show More
35m 57s