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May 2022
1h 3m

Overcoming Comparison and Accepting Ordi...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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When was the last time you went through a day without comparing yourself to anyone? For instance, by comparing your life to someone else’s highlight reel on social media, or being critical of your own willpower and abilities? Avoiding these mental traps can be difficult in a culture that emphasizes the importance of being 'special.' Of course, we are all spe ... Show More
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