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Apr 2022
37m 29s

30 - The psychology of pacing and explor...

LOUISE RUMBALL
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In this episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise sits down with clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr Tari Mack to discuss the psychology of pacing, dating and the slow grow vs. the euphoric rollercoaster romance. Louise Rumball & Dr Tari explore: ⇢ Pete Davidson and Kim Kardashian and why everything moves so damn quickly in life and in Hollywoo ... Show More
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