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May 2022
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The 10 NO B.S. Lessons to Raise Your Con...

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About this episode

Confidence is something too many of us struggle with. Tragically, lack of confidence impacts the quality of life for many of us, and the lack of confidence isn’t necessarily a reflection of the things you have and don’t have. It’s internal, it’s personal, and it’s self reflective of how you feel about yourself.

The great news is that you can give your confidence a major boost. Being confident today is an ongoing process, and Lisa is stepping into her Bad B*itch Boots to get vulnerable and share with you the hard road to Radical Confidence.

Admittedly, it’s been a heck of a rollercoaster ride. There is pain, tears, many fears, and stages of denial along the way that Lisa not only had to overcome, but that she admits to still working on even still! In this special episode, Lisa is reading passages from her first book, Radical Confidence and giving you the lowdown on how to start taking charge and changing your life today.

It’s time to stop living in denial about the reality of the life you’re living, and it’s time to start dealing with the negative thoughts, and Dream Killing mentality that has you living in a mundane existence. Lisa’s experiences are not only totally relatable, but they are an inspiration of how you can take small planned incremental steps toward confidence and showing up for yourself today!


Lisa’s 3 Dream Killers to Look Out For:

Dismissing your own Happiness

Not defining the Dream or Goal

No Deadline on the Dream


Lisa’s 5 Tips for Negative Thoughts:

Observe your thoughts

Identify the patterns

Put your thoughts on trial

Allow the negative thoughts to fuel you

Deal with your negative thoughts

Practice! Practice! Practice!


SHOW NOTES:

Part 1 | You Can Change Your Life [0:46]

Outside Perspective of Your Reality [7:04]

Dream Killers | Lisa’s 3 Dream Killers [10:17]

Part 2 | You Can Figure Sh*t Out [12:24]

Journey to Becoming the Entrepreneur [15:37]

4 Tips for Your Negative Thoughts [19:12]

Part 3 | You Can Boost Your Confidence [24:27]

Lisa’s Confidence Boosters [31:30]

Vanessa’s Event Tips for Confidence [34:37]

Boost Your Confidence in Style [41:02]


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