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May 2023
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Are You Being Used? (And How Not To Be)

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About this episode

We’re talking about the struggle of feeling used and/or taken advantage of by friends, partners, co-workers, and family. We discuss how to recognize it and put an end to it, drawing boundaries, redirecting someone, self-talk, and more. Before we get into the topic, we’re sharing the craziness that went down after a recent show, a (just discovered) major difference in how we sleep, and a wild tale of BV. Enjoy! 

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