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May 2022
1h 8m

Married, but Living Apart (w/ Judy Gold)

Headgum & Nicole Byer
About this episode

The hilarious Judy Gold joins Nicole to chat about the challenges of dating a therapist, her experience being selected as one of Time Out New York's Most Eligible Singles, the ethics of writing jokes about your partner, and the benefits of being married but living apart.  

 

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