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Apr 2022
40m 15s

The Essentials: Managing Up

Harvard Business Review
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Having a healthy, mutually beneficial relationship with your boss doesn’t require accommodating their every quirk, demand, and weakness. We discuss respectful, constructive ways to meet in the middle, set boundaries, and help them achieve their goals while making your competence known. 
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