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Mar 2022
18m 21s

Are Your Expectations Too High?

PRX AND GREATER GOOD SCIENCE CENTER
About this episode

High expectations can lead to disappointment, but expecting the worst doesn't feel great, either. This week we explore how to find the balance.

Link to episode transcript: https://tinyurl.com/27s3x7n7

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