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Mar 2022
44m 29s

344: When You Have Kids Out Of Wedlock

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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Nearly 50% of all kids born in the United States are born out of wedlock! Co-parenting, legal challenges and much more can cause all kinds of problems in this situation. Listen to today's show to learn how to best navigate having a kid with someone who you never intended to be in a relationship with or are no longer in a relationship with.  In this episode w ... Show More
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