Feb 2022

48m 11s

It’s not you it’s me

About this episode

This week we talk about the trials of dating in your 30s, something we are well versed in, but is it as bad as all that?

Let’s talk about what’s been going on since Fi stopped talking about dates
What do you do if he says it’s not you it’s me
A listener letter that resonates with us so much!
What is moving too fast really?
What it’s like to be waiting for that peace calm sea that is love

Show notes:

https://www.harpersbazaar.com/uk/culture/a34587107/camille-charriere-love-in-your-30s/

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