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Feb 2022
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EP269 - The Ultimate Guide to Fingering ...

Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.d, Psychology Of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education
About this episode

Welcome to episode 269 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Searah Deysach to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss using full body exploration to lead to fingering, paying attention to non-verbal cues and ways you can use teasing to really get your partner in the mood. 

 

Searah Deysach is a sex educator and the owner of Early to Bed and FtM Essentials. In addition to running her retail store & websites, she lectures to community groups and colleges around the state on topics relating to masturbation, sex toys and positive sexuality. 

She is committed to working to create a culture where everyone has access to honest information about sexuality and all folks have access to the services, they need to protect their reproductive rights. 

   

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • Using full body exploration to lead to fingering  
  • The importance of light touch and strokes  
  • How you can anticipation and excitement before fingering  
  • Why slowing down to build up is important  
  • How long should we be exploring other parts of the body? 
  • The importance of communication with your partner 
  • Building up excitement with your clothes still on  
  • Ways you can use teasing to really get your partner in the mood 
  • Paying attention to non-verbal cues 
  • Engaging in after-care after orgasm  
  • Ways to add excitement without it becoming the main event  

 

Find Searah Deysach Online 

https://www.early2bed.com  

 

9 Foreplay Ideas 

https://exciting-builder-8729.ck.page/2690c062c9


 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  



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