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Feb 2022
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11 Principles for Love I've Learned abou...

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What makes a good partner? Are you doing your part in making the relationship work? Do you see yourself being in a relationship with the person you are with now for years to come? If so, have you found the right blend of love, understanding, and communication to make it last?

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses the principles of love we ought to learn and practice for a harmonious and worth keeping relationship this year.     

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Key Takeaways:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 03:09 Are soulmates real?
  • 06:46 Principle #1: A relationship only works If both people are working on it
  • 10:39 Principle #2: Relationships are a classroom, not a candy shop
  • 13:28 Principle #3: Be playful but don’t play mind games
  • 16:37 Principle #4: Making someone feel bad does make them become good
  • 18:37 Principle #5: You have to learn about the person again and again
  • 21:40 Principle #6: Work on a relationship priority together every month
  • 23:15 Principle #7: Any recurring issues, solve them for the long term
  • 23:57 Principle #8: Prepare your partner for your mood swings
  • 25:01 Principle #9: Don't make them work through your trauma, work on it yourself 
  • 25:42 Principle #10: Focus on how you can compliment your partner
  • 26:26 Principle #11: Recognized what they bring into the relationship   

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