Is a title like "Three Steps Required to Change Anything" an oversimplification of what it takes to get what you want?
Or… is it the acceptance that everything is simple - until we complicate it.
If you guess the second, you will get along just fine.
So, what are those three steps?
The first step to getting anything you want is to KNOW what you want. Many wi ... Show More
Yesterday
Ask This Magic Question Today
Happy Friday, my friend. I want to share a question with you that I haven’t pulled out in seven or eight years. It’s a little neuro-linguistic programming trick I learned from a textbook decades ago, and it works almost every time you use it. This week, it cracked open a member o ... Show More
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Apr 30
The Day You Think You Have Nothing
Have you ever sat down to do what you love and felt your mind go blank? I felt it 40 minutes before recording. The promise was simple, the list ready. Then, nothing. The main lesson: when your mind feels blank, the problem isn't a lack of options—it’s that you’re not seeing them. ... Show More
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Apr 29
Motivation Doesn't Work? Tell That to Your Dopamine
Have you heard that motivation is irrelevant—that only discipline, identity, or systems matter for adults? After thirty years in this field, I've repeatedly seen that the loudest critics end up seeking a boost themselves. Today, I'll show how claims of the demise of motivation ac ... Show More
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Jun 2021
How to Make Your Life More Effortless
<p>When we're failing to do the things that are most important in our lives, the typical diagnosis of the problem is to believe we're simply not working hard enough, and the typical solution to the problem is to put in more effort, apply more discipline, and grind it out.</p>
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51m 39s
Mar 2024
Stop Caring About Your Goals
<p>Today, we're talking about why obsessing over your goals might actually be holding you back. Yep, you heard me! While goals are key, there's something even more crucial to focus on.</p><p>Here's the scoop: We're all about making your dream life a reality, but the trick is not ... Show More
17m 1s
Jan 2022
How to Accomplish Big Things | The 2022 Plan
<p>Is there something big that you would love to accomplish in this new year? Something maybe you've been thinking about for a while, something maybe you have tried to figure out, try to succeed at tried to accomplish in the past, maybe something that was a new year's resolution ... Show More
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