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Jan 2022
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EP263 - How to Become a Cunnilingus Mast...

Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.d, Psychology Of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education
About this episode

Welcome to episode 263 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Alison Ash to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the do’s and dont's of cunnilingus, recommendations for the receiver to feel comfortable receiving oral sex, and what are some of the best positions for oral sex.

 

Dr. Alison Ash is at trauma-informed sex and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences.  

 

She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. 

   

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

  • The do’s and dont's of cunnilingus
  • How you can fine tune your rhythm with your partner  
  • Dispelling the misconceptions around the smell of a vagina  
  • Ways in which you can help put your partner at ease  
  • Recommendations for the receiver to feel comfortable to receive oral sex  
  • Looking at techniques such as “writing the alphabet with your tongue”  
  • When is the right time to move onto penetration?  
  • What are some of the best positions for oral sex?  
  • Looking at experimenting with the 69 position for oral sex  
 

 

Thank you to our sponsor Cozy Earth! 

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Grab 40% off all products using promo code: SEXOLOGY 

 

Free Foreplay Checklist

 

Find Dr. Alison Ash Online 

https://www.TurnON.love  

 

Dr. Alisons Class 
https://www.TurnON.love/intimacy-skills 
Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills: A 2-month experiential course 

Jan 11- March 8th 2022 

  

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey http://petebailey.net/audio



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