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Dec 2021
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Top SECRET Psychological Strategies To R...

Lewis Howes
About this episode

There's a way to always get what you want and it starts with being able to accurately read people. Human beings are social creatures which means understanding how we communicate is one of the most important parts of our lives and that’s why this week I wanted to bring together two extraordinary interviews I’ve had with former Secret Service Agent, Evy Poumpouras, and former FBI Negotiator, Chris Voss.

In this episode we discuss how to build rapport and trust with someone, knowing the difference between someone who is lying or telling the truth, the formula to get people to do things for you because they feel like it, the hostage negotiation tactics you should be using on a daily basis, and so much more!

For more go to: www.lewishowes.com/1203

Get Chris' book: Never Split the Difference

Get Evy's book: Becoming Bulletproof

Check out the full episodes:

Chris Voss EP 902 - www.lewishowes.com/902

Evy Poumpouras EP 1092 - www.lewishowes.com/1092

 

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