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May 2021
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57. How to Overcome and Move Past Resist...

SUSAN CALLENDER
About this episode

When it comes to resistance, too often we think in terms of what can potentially be lost, rather than what can be gained. When it comes to social skills, it’s all gain.

To put it simply, putting yourself out there and exposing your psyche to judgment can be challenging. Overcoming resistance and trying something new means there is a possibility of failure. Most people prefer to stay in their comfort zone than venture into unknown territory.

Choosing to make a change to one’s business-social standing is a win-win. It is absolutely necessary. It’s time to buck up and show up!

 

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