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Jul 2021
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63. Creating Social Confidence with Cons...

SUSAN CALLENDER
About this episode

Everything we do is reviewed first in our brain then transferred to our motor skills. This is how we function all day and every day, and social skills, social anxiety, and fear of being visible, to name a few are very much included in those skills.

Today we’re talking about Consciously Connecting with the people important to your business and your life. You’ll learn—

  • How to bridge the gap between where you are now and where you want to be when you reach social confidence.
  • How to start mentally rehearsing being your future self as you make daily decisions
  • The reason visualizing your identity will get you further, faster
  • Why mental mentally rehearsing desired outcomes and results is the key to achieving your goals

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