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Dec 2021
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Do Men And Women Want Different Things?

PATRICK KING
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Human beings tend to want the same things in their mates—attractiveness, resources, and emotional connection—but people will rank the relative importance of these differently depending on their sex and their life stage. A good dating strategy takes this into account and finds a workable overlap.

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