On today’s show, Emily is joined by Dr. Justin Lehmiller – a leading expert on human sexuality – to talk about his book, Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How it Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life.
They discuss sexual fantasies, what they mean, and why it’s totally okay to have them (psst, we all do). Plus, they get into the benefits o ... Show More
Jun 2
What Really Turns You On? Keeping Desire Alive in LTR
In this workshop, I'm answering your questions about desire, attraction, turn-ons, fantasies, and sexual connection. We explore why we're attracted to certain people and experiences, how to talk about sex with a partner without creating pressure, what to do when desire changes ov ... Show More
53m 56s
May 29
Are Phones Ruining Our Sex Lives?
In this live episode recorded on May 21, 2026, I’m diving into how technology is reshaping our sex lives, relationships, dating habits, and emotional connection. From dating apps to social media, doomscrolling, and phone addiction, I unpack why so many of us feel more disconnecte ... Show More
48m 52s
May 26
Stop Faking Sleep to Avoid Sex (Let’s Talk About It)
In this livestream recorded on April 23, 2026, I’m diving into one of the most common and confusing issues in relationships: what happens when your sex life changes over time. We’re talking about desire mismatch, low libido, and why the “honeymoon phase” passion doesn’t stay the ... Show More
28m 1s
May 2024
The Fantasy and Reality of Threesomes with Dr. Justin Lehmiller
DB sits down with Dr. Justin Lehmiller to talk sexual fantasies, threesomes, and the impact of porn on our sex lives. Gain psychological insights into why we do what we do in the bedroom, and learn strategies for expressing your sexual fantasies to a partner. Plus, don't miss DB ... Show More
59m 2s
Dec 2023
Episode 253: Resolutions For Better Sex In 2024 (Essential Listen)
<p>Every time a new year rolls around, people start making resolutions for self-improvement. As you start to think about your own resolutions, consider resolving to have better sex. With the right set of resolutions, you can address problem areas in the bedroom, rekindle the spar ... Show More
39m 15s
Jun 2024
Episode 298: The Keys To Good Sex, According To A Sex Therapist
<p>When it comes to having sex, there are a lot of “rules” that what we’re supposed to follow. But many of those rules contradict one another, making it hard to know what to do. In today’s show, we’re going to discuss whether we should even be follow ... Show More
29m 4s
Mar 2024
Episode 272: How To Pick The Sex Toy That’s Right For You
<p>There are literally tens of thousands of different sex toys out there to choose from, so how do you pick the toy that’s right for you? In today’s show, we’re going to talk about where to start when it comes to selecting adult toys and pleasure products, what to look for ... Show More
41m 17s
May 2023
2077: How to Have Better Sex Featuring Dr. Emily Morse
In this episode Sal, Adam & Justin speak with sex expert, Dr. Emily on how to add more fun to the bedroom. Why is sexual health so important? (1:47) How stress, trauma, and shame are pleasure thieves. (4:40) Having an unhealthy relationship with masturbation. (8:17) Porn without ... Show More
1h 51m