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Feb 2021
11m 6s

Ignoring Negativity

SHENEKA ADAMS
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𝐼𝑔𝓃𝑜𝓇𝑒 𝒶𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑒𝑔𝒶𝓉𝒾𝓋𝒾𝓉𝓎 𝒻𝓇𝑜𝓂 𝑜𝓊𝓉𝓈𝒾𝒹𝑒𝓇𝓈. Don’t give them your energy. Be aware of what’s being said, but don’t react. Avoid subliminal messages and petty banter. All of that is beneath you. 
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