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Mar 2020
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John Neffinger

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Samara chats with one of the world's top communication coaches about what it takes for a woman to be heard on the national stage from Hillary to Elizabeth and beyond, and what we can all do to bring our strength and warmth out. How do we play the rules so we can break the rules?


Host: Samara Bay

Executive producers: Catherine Burt Cantin & Mark Cantin, Double Vision doublevisionprojects.com

Producers: Samara Bay, Sophie Lichterman and the iHeart team

Theme music: Mark Cantin


For Compelling People, by John Neffinger and Matthew Kohut: indiebound.org/book/9780142181027

For Good and Mad, by Rebecca Traister: indiebound.org/book/9781501181795

For more on Mehrabian: businessballs.com/communication-skills/mehrabians-communication-theory-verbal-non-verbal-body-language/

For more Ann Richards: youtube.com/watch?v=_CzzkUHyDLI

For the Monica Hesse article: washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/what-does-female-authority-sound-like-marie-yovanovitch-and-fiona-hill-just-showed-us/2019/11/22/b5041d06-0cbc-11ea-8397-a955cd542d00_story.html

For more info on honoring native lands: usdac.us/nativeland

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