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Oct 2021
36m 12s

TU158: Are You Cool, or Just Cut Off? D...

SUE MARRIOTT LCSW, CGP & ANN KELLEY PHD
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Don't be fooled by the illusion of security. This episode is especially for those “talk to the hand” kind of people or those that love them. You know, the uber-independent, rational, left-brain, excel spreadsheet person that sees others emotions as needy and weak. Co-hosts Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP and Ann Kelley PhD translate decades of research and clinica ... Show More
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