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Sep 2021
20m 36s

1:82 Raising Self-Driven Kids With Willi...

SUSAN STIFFELMAN
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In this recording from Facebook Live, Susan talk with William Stixrud and Ned Johnson, authors of The Self-Driven Child, about their new book, What Do You Say?: How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home. They talk about how to be a non-anxious presence in children's lives in preparation for their new class, What Do You Say? Communication Tools For Self-Driven Kids. https://susanstiffelman.com/podcast-episode-stixrud-johnson/

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