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Aug 2021
50m 3s

My Promotion Ended Our Friendship

Esther Perel Global Media
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They were close friends before they started working together. But when one got a surprise promotion, the other began to question her value within the friendship, as well as the organization. To save the friendship, should she leave the job? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices 
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