This oneâs for the lovers out there.
You CAN have beautiful, flourishing, romantic relationships⌠if you do the work.
But what do you do when youâve been working on yourself and your partnerâs journey is only just beginning?
It can be really frustrating when youâve unravelled your stories, healed your trauma and experienced real growth and expansion in your life and your partner isnât quite there yet.Â
We get impatient.Â
âWhy arenât they making progress?â
âWhy are they STILL struggling with the same issue?â
âThey should read the book I read and get a life coach like I didâ.
Sound familiar?
If thatâs you, this episode is going to help you take the pressure down.
My husband, Hamish, and I talk about being Gandhi, living out of compassion and patience as your partner goes on their own journey.
Because it is THEIR journey. It wonât look like yours.Â
Your job is to be who YOU have become.. The expanded, healed, kind, patient version that you have discovered as youâve been doing the work.Â
Hamish and I talk about the importance of being patient, communicating about the deep things and living out of compassion for yourself and the people around you.
When you are doing the work in your own life, you donât NEED your partner to do the work in order to be okay with YOU.
Be Gandhi.
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Where to find Hamish:
Website: https://manfulness.com.au/
Instagram:@manfulnessmen
Podcast:Manfulness on Apple Podcasts
Where To Find Erika:
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