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Aug 2021
45m 15s

The Lies of Monogamy w/ Dr. Shefali

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode

How has culture shaped your sexuality? According to my guest Dr. Shefali Tsabury, culture has conditioned us to suppress, cheat, and lie to ourselves. But radically authentic love and desire IS possible if we’re willing to confront common myths and make the conscious decision to live free.

In this fascinating conversation, Dr. Shefali talks about how to rethink marriage as a model for growth, whether monogamy is natural (or not), and how to replace societal conditioning with something more wild, interesting, and frankly pretty sexy: worthiness.


For more information about Dr. Shefali, visit: DrShefali.com

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